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Learning To Trust Yourself

Finding the capabilities to truly learn to trust yourself is anyone’s guess.

Trusting you are making the right decisions, living the life you want to be living, be-friending the appropriate people, cutting out the negative.

Unsure and insecure, right? We’ve all had times of self-doubt, self-loathing, not feeling fulfilled with our lives.

It’s not exactly easy to learn how to let go of our hate.

We want to cling like a newborn baby because it has caused us hurt and we’re not quite ready to let go and forgive a certain situation that has had a negative impact on us.

All we truly have is trust in ourselves before we can ever move onto our next achievement.

It is by trusting in yourself that you can make decisions in your life. Every day we make decisions big and small that require us to trust in ourselves.

This can, of course, be challenged at times when something may happen in your life and create a negative impact. You may have to take a step back and wrap your thoughts and emotions around what has happened and how you can take the next step in moving forward.

Sometimes it can be fixed, sometimes you have to let go and move on trusting in the powers that be to guide you. In life, we have to find what is important to us and for us. If that means making difficult decisions then so be it.

There will always be a critic, always! If you know this, it may just make things that bit easier.

Value your choices and trust the choices you make even if it results in outcomes you don’t necessarily want.

Maybe you face losing someone or face negativity as a result of a choice you need to make in order to better yourself as a person and to better your life.

Hopefully, you’ll have a select few people that will be able to stand with you against the critics, one way or the other.

If you feel bad about something in your life, trust yourself in moving forward and try not be afraid of what may or may not be.

Do not be discouraged especially if you feel you are making the right decision even if faced with adversity.

It’s important to trust your decision and by doing so, you will build true trust within yourself and leave the rest to fate or faith whatever your preference… leave it to that. We can only hope it’ll work out, right?

Acknowledge what has gone before, tip your hat, smile and progress. It may be leading into the unknown, but at least you’ll know yourself.

Life’s lessons must be learned, it’s mother natures will, otherwise there would be no purpose for your being.

What are we if not ourselves? It is only and all of anything we ever can be!

Believe and trust in the next step and your answers will come.

We cannot change people, we can only change ourselves and through that hopefully, we can change the world one tiny piece at a time and know that it was our contribution as a person that did it.

Forever transition, forever grow… let it go!


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Katherine Hurst
By Emma Mccartney
Emma McCartney is a graduate of English Literature with Creative and Professional Writing from the University of East London. A previous College graduate of Performing Arts, she has a passion for writing, acting and directing. She is currently training to be a therapist in order to help people realize their potential and overcome what holds them back. Emma has nothing but respect for the world and leads an ovo vegetarianism lifestyle. Having traveled to many different places in the world, she now resides in her hometown in the north of Ireland in which she runs a small business selling ethical handmade Irish clothing.

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