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5 Tips For Making Love: No Sex Required

Making love is simply one of the most power energy rushes in the universe, but it’s really all about creating energy that comes right from the divine. While usually the product of effort between two people, you don’t actually have to go to the sheets to make love.

There’s more than one way to create that divine energy, and you can find outlets for it across different areas of life. In fact, try the following five tips for making love without having sex today and see what a difference it can make.

1. Look At The Positive

Think about making love—it’s all about creating that love energy, so it’s not hard to see why you should focus on the positive in your life. All day, every day, you’re creating negative or positive energy.

This same energy contributes to all those around you and society in general. In short, the more you focus on loving actions, words and thoughts, the better off all of us will be. Decide to do, think and speak positive as soon as you get out of bed each morning, and you’ll feel and see a change in your life for the better.

If you’re someone who is prone to negative thoughts, actions, and words or all three, this won’t be easy at first. Dedicate yourself to seeing the positive, no matter how hard it seems sometimes, and give yourself some room to make mistakes. The important thing is to always bring your focus back to the positive. The more you do it, the easier it will become, until it is part of your very nature.

2. Give Someone A Hand

Nearly all actions in life are asking for love. Everyone wants love in their lives, and no one wants to live without it. When you think about it, you’ll probably realize there has been times in your life when all you wanted was someone to give you that late phone call, a kind word or just a hug when you needed it the very most.

This is because love, and only love, is what can fill empty spaces and mend cracks in your heart. You can be the person you were longing for by simply making yourself open to the opportunities and willing to give up a little time and effort.

Look for ways to help others, especially those who could really use it. It doesn’t have to be some huge, grand gesture. Help someone reach a goal or support whatever their passion is. Make yourself available for that late chat or phone call with someone who is struggling right now, even if you’re the one who has to dial the number.

Little things can and do count just as much as the big things, so don’t worry about what you do, as it’s about if you do! Go the extra mile for others whenever you can, and you will feel all that love you’re giving out and then some.

3. Widen Your Perspective

There is a lot of negative energy out there in the world today, and a lot of it stems back to a narrow perspective. You simply can’t know where to direct your love energy if you’re going through life with your blinders set to on. Turning a blind eye to someone else because of their religion, race, color, innocent private habits or spiritual views won’t do anything other than create a void in your heart and in theirs.

Give your loving energy a chance to grow and move by widening your perspective on the world and those around you. With that increased perspective, you can create a positive energy effect that will ripple.

Read up on people and places you’re not familiar with. Learn about the culture of someone else. Show kindness and compassion to someone who has a different lot in life. Find out their history, about their family or just what makes them proudest.

Be more open to the lives, experiences and viewpoints of others instead of just closing yourself off to what you don’t immediately understand. It’s understanding that is the key to a life full of love, and without it, it’s impossible to feel all the love, peace and freedom that comes with a broader outlook on life.

4. Reconnect With Nature

Nature, on its own, is a sort of sanctuary with its own love energy to give. When you are able to connect with nature, you’ll feel the overflow of positive energy that comes right from the Earth itself. Take a minute to feel that energy by lying on the ground and taking in its warmth.

Listen to the wind rustle the trees and how it moves through the plants and grass. When you make yourself one with nature, your mind is able to take the break it needs from the buzzing of everyday life, and that’s a priceless gift.

Make time at least once a week to get yourself back to nature. This could be as simple as visiting a nearby park or even just going out to a quiet spot in your yard. Allow your mind to calm down in these moments.

It may not be easy all the time, especially if you’ve got a lot of things going on in your life, but it’s definitely worth the effort. Giving your mind a rest allows you to tackle the next day, and any problems, with a refreshed set of thoughts and a clear mental eye.

5. Show Love To Yourself

You simply can’t give out love to everyone and everything else if you don’t have it for yourself. All of the love you give out springs from within, and how well-stocked your reserves are comes down to how you view and treat yourself. It’s surprising how little people sometimes love themselves.

If you’re pushing yourself past your limits, coming down hard on yourself for mistakes or failures, or just not giving your body and mind the rest they need, you probably need to brush up on how well you love yourself.Pin It

Don’t drag yourself across the coals for every mistake you make or every time you fail to reach a goal or accomplish something. If you need rest, make sure you get it. You don’t have to prove anything to yourself or other people.

At the end of the day, it’s just you in the room, so how you think and feel matters the most. Show yourself some love, whether that be in the form of having a nap when you were going to work over the weekend or watching a movie you wanted to see instead of hitting the gym when you’re exhausted.

Use the five tips above to experience love energy without all the usual fuss. Once you allow room for your love energy to flow in and away, you’ll begin to live life as you never were able to live it before!

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Katherine Hurst
By Virginia Palomar
Virginia’s mother was the person to first introduce meditation to her, and has been fascinated ever since. How can I mind be taken to such a calm and peaceful state whilst still being awake? Her calling was to find out more, and help others to do the same! Now, Virginia specializes in Mindfulness Based Integral Psychotherapy and Life Coaching, and teaches her clients how to find sustainable relief from addictions, depression, anxiety and trauma-related distress disorders.

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